Do you have big dreams and know deep down that you absolutely could make them happen but never seem to get much further than the starting block? Are you working towards your big goals but feel overwhelmed, way out of your depth and not getting very far fast? Or maybe you feel stuck in the life you have because you don’t feel like you’d belong in the one you truly desire.Well I’m here to tell you that if you’ve got a dream, then it’s because its meant for you. It’s waiting for you and it doesn’t need to be hard to reach it, but we’re not taught the fundamental secret to achieving our goals, which is why so many people go through their whole lives, hoping, praying, wishing and struggling, rather than actualising the life they’re really meant to live.
You see, most of us have it the wrong way round. We tend to focus on the BE, DO, HAVE principle, whereby we believe that when we reach our goals, we’ll start doing things differently and become the person we’re meant to become. We believe that when we’ve got the house, car or thriving business, then we’ll finally feel successful and have the confidence to embrace the opportunities and experiences that come our way. Yet this is the wrong way round and why most people fail.
You cannot get to where you want to go as the person you are today. Your current thoughts, beliefs, choices and actions have got you to this point and will only continue to produce similar results in the future. It will take a different, higher version of you to get you to create the life you really want to live. You have to BECOME the person who is aligned with your goals, in order to DO the things that you need to do and HAVE them come into your reality. THIS is the fundamental secret to success and the fastest way to manifest your goals with total ease and flow.
Whatever it is you want, whether thats to become a New York Times bestselling author, a TED speaker, a top coach in your field or to have the most incredible relationship filled with love, joy and passion; you have to BECOME the person who already HAS it in order to create it. Because when you do this, your actions, beliefs, thoughts and energy are aligned with your goals and it’s this alignment that ultimately brings it into reality. You simply cannot stay the same and create a different reality from the one you are currently experiencing. And the more aligned you are with your goals, the faster you will achieve them.
We also tend to want certainty before we make any big decisions. We want to know that our business will be a success before we decide to launch it or quit the day-job. We want to know for definite that our relationships will work out for the long-term before will take that big risk and commit, even though everything our hearts says “this feels so right”. Yet there is no certainty in life except that one day, we’re going to die. When we make decisions in life our mind will always search for past references from personal experiences or what we’ve been told is truth to make its decision from. It will deliberately seek out problems and do everything it can to provide the evidence to support that it’s not worth taking the risk, because its your minds job to protect you and keep you safe. It is not your minds job to fulfil your desires, it simply want you to survive.
When you become the person who is aligned with your goals, you start to make bold decisions from where you’re going, not where you currently are. Initially, this requires a real leap of faith. YOU have to take control and learn to dance with fear, not let it continue to be in the driving seat of your life. You have to risk because that is how you will create the evidence and results to support the fact that you really can make this happen. You have to start to question everything. Consciously begin to upgrade your beliefs and instead of settling for what you were subconsciously programmed to believe as a child, CHOOSE again. Yes, you heard that right, you have a CHOICE regarding the beliefs you hold true about yourself and life...when was the last time you questioned them?
Bringing your dreams into reality, requires change. It requires you to connect so deeply with your vision that you become one. It requires you to step-up and BE the person who is living and breathing that vision in every moment, every decision and every action. It requires you to fully embody that higher version of you now, because you already are that person.
The real you is simply playing small behind the shadow of fears, limiting beliefs and negative thoughts. Click Here to download ‘The Woman Who’ exercise now and start to get clear on what the version of you thats aligned with your goals looks like and discover to bring her to life now.
THIS is the secret to condensing time, making a quantum leap and bringing your vision into reality. Achieving your goals will become surprisingly simple and you’ll be amazed at how quickly they come fruition, once you embody the version of you already living the life you want to create.
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